Sex Should Be About Having Fun, Not Achieving Goals

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Is an orgasm essential to having good sex? Some people see sex that does involve an orgasm as a sign of failure, perhaps even sexual dysfunction. This view creates enormous pressure for us to both give and achieve orgasm during sex. Worrying about this can result in a self-fulfilling prophecy. It creates feelings of pressure and anxiety when you should be relaxing and focus on enjoying the lovemaking. Continue reading …